Posted by
ricaler on Monday, October 15, 2007 9:09:27 PM
Tact and tolerance...something that seems to be acutely missing from the culture of the day. Granted, some older, mature individuals still have the residue from an earlier age when that was part of the norm. But, is it harder to find those qualities exhibited now? Most people will tell you what they really think and if you're not quick to agree will pull you into the maelstrom of venom and spit what's left out. So much for tolerance.
There is something to be learned however. I've heard it said, "Tact is the fulcrum of social leverage, and tolerance is the earmark of a great soul." Tact can act as the social lubricant of daily interaction thereby lessening the wear and tear on your soul. And be watchful for those rare individuals who when pressed, respond with tolerance and forbearance. Recognize what you have witnessed as a gem apart from the stones of living.